Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you. 26My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

Psalm 73:25-26 

I will make with them an everlasting covenant, that I will not turn away from doing good to them. And I will put the fear of me in their hearts, that they may not turn from me.

Jeremiah 32:40 

"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly."

John 10:10 

Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. 24Put away from you crooked speech, and put devious talk far from you.

Proverbs 4:23-24 

Let your eyes look directly forward, and your gaze be straight before you. 26Ponder the path of your feet; then all your ways will be sure. 27Do not swerve to the right or to the left; turn your foot away from evil.

Proverbs 4:25-27 

…let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; 20for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.

James 1:19-20 

For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich.

2 Corinthians 8:9 

Your way, O God, is holy. What god is great like our God? 14You are the God who works wonders; you have made known your might among the peoples.

Psalm 77:13-14 

Out of my distress I called on the LORD; the LORD answered me and set me free. 6The LORD is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me? 7The LORD is on my side as my helper; I shall look in triumph on those who hate me. 8It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in man.

Psalm 118:5-8 

Help us, O God of our salvation, for the glory of your name; deliver us, and atone for our sins, for your name's sake!

Psalm 79:9 

…he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.

1 John 4:4 

And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, "Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God."

Revelation 21:3 

"He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away."

Revelation 21:4 

Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all. 20He keeps all his bones; not one of them is broken. 21Affliction will slay the wicked, and those who hate the righteous will be condemned. 22The LORD redeems the life of his servants; none of those who take refuge in him will be condemned.

Psalm 34:19-22 

Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

Colossians 4:6 

My Words Show People Who I Am (Col 4:6)

| Aug 23, 2015

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Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. –Colossians 4:6

In April of this year, my family and I moved to San Jose, Costa Rica to serve as missionaries. Our primary task during this first year on the field is to learn Spanish – an adventure that has already taught me a great deal about the importance of words.

When I speak in Spanish, my words show people who I am. My word choice, the order of the words, my accent all reveal that I am not at home. In brief conversations, neighbors, people at church, even people in the grocery store or the bank, can tell that I am not from here.

In this week’s verse, the Apostle Paul reminds the believers at Colossae that even words in our native tongue reveal a great deal about who we are. As those who trust in Christ, the things we talk about and the words we choose should be different from the world around us. Our speech should clearly demonstrate that our citizenship is in heaven (Philippians 3:20). Our expressions and exclamations should underscore our trust in the sovereignty of God who works all things together for good (Romans 8:28) even when our kids misbehave or someone cuts us off in traffic.

People in our workplace and our neighborhood, those we meet at the gym or in the playground, our family and friends should see a different character in how we use our words. Our conversations should overflow with grace. In Paul’s metaphor, our words should be “salty” providing unique flavor and having a positive impact on the world around us.

But it’s about more than just being a nice person. Our words must not only be “gracious” in the human sense, they should point to the Grace of the One who loved us and gave Himself for us (Galatians 2:20). Our words should overflow with the gospel of grace.

Because our words should and will raise questions from the people we encounter, Paul urges us to see our words as they are received by “each person.” He encourages us to carefully and prayerfully choose our words to have maximum gospel impact. As Peter puts it, always being prepared to make a defense but doing it with “gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15).

As I write this post, my Facebook feed is filled with opportunities for Christians to speak with gracious, gospel commending words. As we engage issues like same sex marriage, abortion, the 2016 presidential election, and many others, even when it’s hard – especially when it’s hard – we must ask ourselves: How are my words commending the grace of God? Could someone who doesn’t know me tell I trusted Jesus from the words I am using here? How are my words to this person advancing the cause of impacting them with the gospel?

So while I’m in language school trying to overcome the obstacle of my clunky Spanish, I will be praying for those who trust in Christ around the world. May your words overflow with grace that brings gospel transformation to the world and glory to our great God.



  1. Are there areas where you need to repent and seek forgiveness from God and others regarding how you have used your words?
  2. What concrete steps will you take this week to ensure your words reflect the grace of the gospel?
  3. Who are some specific people (or groups of people) that God has brought into your circle of influence that you can prayerfully engage with your words to impact their lives with the gospel?

Peter Morris grew up in Sydney, Australia where he completed college. Then, he came to the US for his Masters degree where he met Melanie (now his wife) and decided to stay! Peter served as the Family Ministries Director at Ambassador Bible Church near Washington DC from 2007-2015. He currently lives in San Jose, Costa Rica where he will serve as the City Team Leader with ReachGlobal after completing language school in spring 2016. Peter and Melanie have three children: Samuel-5, Madeleine-3, and Benjamin-1. Learn more about their journey on their blog

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